Your guy hasn’t texted you back, either?
Your guy hasn’t texted you back yet, either? Unfortunately, it looks like we’re in the same boat. So, let's just be real—it sucks. I’m just as annoyed, frustrated, and confused as you are…and I’m really sorry.
I wish neither of us were in this position, but here we are. At least we’re in it together.
Here’s some of the things I’ve been telling myself lately to help calm my anxiety and soothe the part of me that’s afraid of being left or ghosted without explanation. I’m praying that they help calm your anxious heart, too.
Me to me (& you to you):
I promise to sit with you in the middle of uncomfortable feelings. I will not abandon you to face them alone, nor will I rush you through them.
God is never going to leave you. “Do not be afraid or discouraged, for the Lord will go ahead of you. He will be with you; he will neither fail you nor abandon you.” Deuteronomy 31:8
I will not abandon you to go be with someone else. It’s important to me that you feel safe with both me and the guy we’re seeing. I love having you with me.
You are so fun and a joy to be around. Any guy would be insanely lucky to have you.
I would encourage you to say these out loud to yourself, or write them down and put them somewhere you can see them. As always, this is a piece of my heart. Consider it yours. 🦋
(Inspired by journal entry October 12th, 2023)